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Nov 13, 2023Liked by MaryAnn Johanson

I'm 38, and only got my first cell phone (a flip phone) partway through college.

I read. Or listened to music. Or just, like, hung out and looked around at the world. Don't get me wrong, I like my smart phone, I'm typing on one right now, but it's not THAT big of a deal to go without if you aren't conditioned to swipe constantly

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Nov 18, 2023Liked by MaryAnn Johanson

I read so much more than I do now. I always had a book with me, like you, until I realized there were magazines I really enjoyed reading, that I could subscribe to for not very much, and then I was a cover-to-cover, every issue reader for years of Rolling Stone, Entertainment Weekly, and and Premiere (rip).

I have been working really hard recently to make my smartphone much less a part of my life. I pick it up when I have something I need to do on it, and for the most part these days, I put it down when I'm done. I am so much happier not being (as) tethered to it. I still don't read as much as I did pre-phone, but a hell of a lot more than I had been. mostly though, it's just that I fill my time with intentional acts rather than somewhat mindless and passive scrolling. it's empowering, I have my time (mostly) back.

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I grew up without broadcast or cable television access. Once the Internet came along I was immediately addicted, so skipping past that and to the part of my life before the personal computer was set up in my home and jacked to the phone outlet, I watched movies on VHS, read books, and played card games and puzzles when not outside wandering around. I also learned how to deal with extreme, crippling boredom, the type that physically hurt, and frankly I follow the "that built character" approach rather than seeing it as a thing I should have avoided. I learned patience and how to occupy my own head.

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